Early Signs

Signs Your Child May Need Special Education Support

You don't need a diagnosis to know something isn't right. Early signs to watch for — and what to do next.

A parent and child reading The IEP Fix Kit together at home

You don't need a diagnosis to know something isn't right. If your child is struggling, there are often early signs — and catching them early matters.

Academic Signs

  • Falling behind in reading, writing, or math compared to peers
  • Difficulty retaining information
  • Trouble following multi-step directions
  • Consistently low grades despite effort
  • Avoiding homework or schoolwork entirely

Behavioral Signs

  • Frequent frustration or emotional shutdowns during schoolwork
  • Avoiding tasks that feel too hard
  • Acting out in class or at home related to school stress
  • Withdrawing from activities they used to enjoy

Social & Emotional Signs

  • Difficulty making or keeping friends
  • Anxiety about going to school
  • Low self-confidence or negative self-talk
  • Emotional outbursts that seem disproportionate

What to Do Next

Step 1: Document What You're Seeing

Start writing down specific behaviors, struggles, and patterns. Include dates and details.

Step 2: Talk to Your Child's Teacher

Ask what they're seeing in the classroom — and follow it up in writing.

Step 3: Request an Evaluation in Writing

You have the legal right to request a special education evaluation. Put your request in writing so the timeline starts.

Want the full playbook? The IEP Fix Kit ($37.99) walks you through every step with chapter-by-chapter strategy and 11 ready-to-send email templates.

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